Don’t we all like to feel loved and needed? That feeling of nostalgia creeping up inside you when the view of an important person becomes clearer and nearer. It just makes you want to run up to that someone and never let that person go.
Well, it’s not because you’re clingy or a finger-sucking baby that can never live without seeing the other person’s shadow. It just proves that you’re human. You are a perfectly normal human being who can stand in his own shoes and live his own life while admitting that you love someone and need his/her existence. We are currently living in a world where women strive hard to be treated equally like men and make a name in various fields. It’s not hard to find women who live independently, seeming to know what they want in life and actually getting it. It’s a tough world out there and just by the looks of it, what they’re going through is not always a stroll in the park.
Even though most men prefer independent and career-oriented women, it cannot be denied that they like the thought of being needed by those amazing gals. It’s going to be a real boost to their ego if they were being run to, even though not constantly, whenever a woman need a hand. It’s because they’re naturally problem-solvers. Don’t get me wrong, I’m not on their defense. I’m just a third party observer, that’s all. Your man is proud of you. His boys are jealous because he’s lucky to have a woman like you. Girls look up to you because you’re a strong woman. So to women who know what they want and get it, don’t act tough ALL the time. You’re not a rock. Your man would really appreciate a little sweetness and appreciation. Their existence and significance also need to recognized. So why don’t you prepare him dinner tonight? I’m pretty sure he’d be more than thrilled.
Note: This is an author’s opinion that may be based on biased views and observations.